Redefining Pleasure

 I have plenty of ideas that don't involve penetrative or oral sex. 

This is how I'd like our encounter to be:

When we meet, I'd like us to warm up to each other with a light conversation just to break the ice. At this point, maintaining eye contact can help build comfort before we try the ideas I'm about to suggest. 

1. Touching

I'll start by focusing on different parts of your body just to find out what feels good. I believe that touching can be pleasurable even when it doesn't lead to sex. The moment I let go of preconceived notions about penetrative sex, I opened myself up to more possibilities for pleasure. 

2. Massage

A sensual massage can take touching to a whole new level. It's a great way to get intimate without our genitals even getting close to touching each other. We can give each other massages in turns. 

When I do it, I'd like to focus on your upper body, back and shoulders. Just to make you feel relaxed. I'm confident that the skin-to-skin contact helps release oxytocin, which is the same chemical released during sex. 

If you are comfortable, I'll take the massage a notch higher by massaging your clit without actually putting anything inside. And also explore other areas on your body that feel good to be touched. 

3. Chatting and snacking

We can get some food, booze or some non-alcoholic drink, put on some music and sit opposite to each other on the bed, in comfy robes or undies. We can also mix up the chatting and snacking with a bit of touching and stroking depending on where the vibe takes us. 

4. Taking a texture tour with a blindfold

After getting your consent, I'll blindfold you and then stroke or press on the skin all over your body using household items of different textures. It can be a leather glove, chilly metal fork, wooden spoon or even a feather duster. 

I'll be mindful of the pleasure I experience while touching you. In particular, I'll try to see how the object feels on my hand and how your skin feels. 

5. Dry humping

I believe dry humping can genuinely feel great. It's the perfect way to challenge one other to provoke pleasure through fabric forces. 

Comfort is key here. So, we both need to have comfortable clothing. Nothing with zippers or hard fabric. 

Also, we can try different positions including scissoring, missionary and standing. 

It has to capitalize on stimulation and heightened pleasure. So, we'll get creative with different angles, speed and pressure to find the most effective position. 

There you have it. Let me know what your thoughts are. 

Cheers.

Just a Thought

  I have plenty of ideas that don't involve penetrative or oral sex. 

This is how I'd like our encounter to be:

When we meet, I'd like us to warm up to each other with a light conversation just to break the ice. At this point, maintaining eye contact can help build comfort before we try the ideas I'm about to suggest. 

1. Touching

I'll start by focusing on different parts of your body just to find out what feels good. I believe that touching can be pleasurable even when it doesn't lead to sex. The moment I let go of preconceived notions about penetrative sex, I opened myself up to more possibilities for pleasure. 

2. Massage

A sensual massage can take touching to a whole new level. It's a great way to get intimate without our genitals even getting close to touching each other. We can give each other massages in turns. 

When I do it, I'd like to focus on your upper body, back and shoulders. Just to make you feel relaxed. I'm confident that the skin-to-skin contact helps release oxytocin, which is the same chemical released during sex. 

If you are comfortable, I'll take the massage a notch higher by massaging your clit without actually putting anything inside. And also explore other areas on your body that feel good to be touched. 

3. Chatting and snacking

We can get some food, booze or some non-alcoholic drink, put on some music and sit opposite to each other on the bed, in comfy robes or undies. We can also mix up the chatting and snacking with a bit of touching and stroking depending on where the vibe takes us. 

4. Taking a texture tour with a blindfold

After getting your consent, I'll blindfold you and then stroke or press on the skin all over your body using household items of different textures. It can be a leather glove, chilly metal fork, wooden spoon or even a feather duster. 

I'll be mindful of the pleasure I experience while touching you. In particular, I'll try to see how the object feels on my hand and how your skin feels. 

5. Dry humping

I believe dry humping can genuinely feel great. It's the perfect way to challenge one other to provoke pleasure through fabric forces. 

Comfort is key here. So, we both need to have comfortable clothing. Nothing with zippers or hard fabric. 

Also, we can try different positions including scissoring, missionary and standing. 

It has to capitalize on stimulation and heightened pleasure. So, we'll get creative with different angles, speed and pressure to find the most effective position. 

Am I Living too Fast?

James Baldwin once said: "The paradox of education is precisely this - that as one begins to become conscious one begins to examine the society in which he is being educated." Mr. Baldwin was right. I find myself examining my society and recommending changes that need to be done by our so-called leaders. I'm very observant. 

Through my observations, I've also started realizing that I may be living too fast .I guess life expects us to be perfectly good at the things they don't teach in school. Life wants you to be fully equipped with skills your professor can't help you acquire.

Should I "live slow"

Well, I believe that the pace at which I'm living doesn't matter as long as I'm building myself without causing conflicts with society. I've always thought about slowing down but I find myself consumed by the fast life. I hope I find an accurate speedometer for my car and stop relying on other people's speedometers.

What Family Really Means

Are we supposed to be establishing and maintaining families at every stage of life we pass? It's general knowledge that family goes beyond DNA. It's those things that bring us together and the way we go through each of our lives together holding each other's hand through the ride hoping for nothing but the best.

My definition of the word "family" has really changed over the years based on my day-to-day encounters. I've met people who have impacted a lot of things in me. I've even considered them family regardless of our biology.

I always like to belong somewhere. You may be part of my family if you help me feel/learn/experience positive things that I've never felt/learnt/experienced before. To me, establishing bonds with certain people is something we should all be doing in our life times.

420

I think my parents should have let the good doctor administer doses of Cannabis to me when I was younger. I feel like I'd be past Steve Jobs' status if they followed my wish. My goal isn't to disrespect Steve Jobs here. I'm just using him as a reference.

Flashing Lights

Just like the usual saying "thieves are born everyday", paparazzis are also born everyday. But who are these paparazzi and what's their purpose in life. Read on to find out what I think.

I was watching the video of Avicii & Conrad Sewell - Taste the Feeling, which is the theme song to Coca-Cola ads, earlier today. It hit me that creatives like Avicii spend most times in their lives creating sounds. They distance themselves from the world to keep their creative juices flowing and

Back From My Blogging Hiatus

After a three-year break, I'm finally back with new exciting stuff to post here on my blog. I simply took the break because I kinda lacked inspiration for new content. Well, I'm back and here to stay. Since I last posted, I've opened my mind to several exciting things that I will be sharing on this blog in my next posts. I thought that this would be the most convenient time for me to revive my blog since micro-blogging sites like Facebook and Twitter failed to give me a reliable platform for expressing myself the way Google Blogger does.

As I embark on this exciting hobby, I'd like to get more feedback from my readers. I kindly urge you to submit your comments below regarding my posts. Your feedback will motivate me to keep generating more content and improve my art of creative writing. For those who have been fans of my blog since I started posting, I'd love to appreciate you all. I'd also love to appreciate new readers for sparing some time to visit my blog. Thank you guys. I promise to keep this blog as active as possible. I also promise to maintain honesty in every post I write.

Quotables

Movie series have a lot of quotables Where words don't translate, music speaks. When music artists are depressed, the studio is their only medication. Even CEOs have their cold moments. To succeed, you have to look at your life in a different perspective. Take charge everyday. No room for excuses. "A convicted fellow can never serve in the board of directors of a public company." - Lucious Lyon. I need a music therapist.

Black Thought

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Music

I promise to write about how music rescued me from depression
How it magnified my inner self
And it made visible all parts of me that I couldn't see before

I promise to share with you everything I gathered from music
From self awareness to harsh reality
It's sole purpose was to educate us
Expound upon the knowledge we got from school
Make our lives better by redefining how we view things

Through music I taught myself how to deal with the world negatives
I also discovered that karma is unforgiving
Hate on someone and the same  happens to you
It's just a matter of time
And our actions translate

As I lay on my bed this cold morning
I reflect on what my heart has been through
I also reminisce the good times I had with colleagues
Friends I met during this holiday
There's was a short term
But I enjoyed every second we spent

My journey has been adventurous
The weather has at times behaved
And my feet have always ensured that I kept walking
Though the sole of my shoe is getting old,
I'm certain that I shall find a new pair as soon as I arrive at my destination

For I am blessed!!!