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Thursday, 18 September 2014

Facing the Harsh Reality

Accepting the fact that she left you for another person may be hard. As long as you know who the other person is, it won’t hurt that much. Asking her for the reasons why she left you is just a waste of time. Her mixed feelings towards you contributed to her decision. May be both of you were so insecure. Relationships aren’t forced. They just come naturally. If she really loved you,
she wouldn’t have left. All that you went through just to please her is now waste.
The hardships you endured for her to say: Yes. The girls you ignored and decided to choose only her. With time the wound she left in you will heal. You’ll probably find a new girl who is more attractive than her. Don’t give up in love. This is not the end of the road for you. It is just the beginning. It prepares you for greater things to come. The future is so vivid when you have faith. When you believe that, one day relationships will come naturally.
And for the girls you ignored, it is time to make peace with them. Who knows, may be your better half is amongst them. The girl of your dreams is in front of you just waiting for that right moment. Reminiscing about the little encounters you had with her is encouraging. But wishing that you would go back to that state is just a blue dream.
You fancy getting back with her. She fancies having good time with her new catch. Those are two contrasting things. It is a harsh reality that you just have to accept. It is time to man up and stop crying over the past. You are capable of doing much better. There is always next time.
Don’t begin to draft plan B of how to win her back. In Mathematics, that is known as a Syntax Error. You trying to solve for two unknowns, yet the answers are with you. Try to think big. Put yourself in Bill Gates shoes. Imagine that this girl, who left you, is a bigger barrier for you to attain a great position in life. That way, your future is promised. Even your wardrobe at times needs a clean up. In life it reaches a time when you have to let go, about the past. You are a Winner, always with the strongest Team.
With confidence, you will make it.

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