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Redefining Pleasure

 I have plenty of ideas that don't involve penetrative or oral sex. 

This is how I'd like our encounter to be:

When we meet, I'd like us to warm up to each other with a light conversation just to break the ice. At this point, maintaining eye contact can help build comfort before we try the ideas I'm about to suggest. 

1. Touching

I'll start by focusing on different parts of your body just to find out what feels good. I believe that touching can be pleasurable even when it doesn't lead to sex. The moment I let go of preconceived notions about penetrative sex, I opened myself up to more possibilities for pleasure. 

2. Massage

A sensual massage can take touching to a whole new level. It's a great way to get intimate without our genitals even getting close to touching each other. We can give each other massages in turns. 

When I do it, I'd like to focus on your upper body, back and shoulders. Just to make you feel relaxed. I'm confident that the skin-to-skin contact helps release oxytocin, which is the same chemical released during sex. 

If you are comfortable, I'll take the massage a notch higher by massaging your clit without actually putting anything inside. And also explore other areas on your body that feel good to be touched. 

3. Chatting and snacking

We can get some food, booze or some non-alcoholic drink, put on some music and sit opposite to each other on the bed, in comfy robes or undies. We can also mix up the chatting and snacking with a bit of touching and stroking depending on where the vibe takes us. 

4. Taking a texture tour with a blindfold

After getting your consent, I'll blindfold you and then stroke or press on the skin all over your body using household items of different textures. It can be a leather glove, chilly metal fork, wooden spoon or even a feather duster. 

I'll be mindful of the pleasure I experience while touching you. In particular, I'll try to see how the object feels on my hand and how your skin feels. 

5. Dry humping

I believe dry humping can genuinely feel great. It's the perfect way to challenge one other to provoke pleasure through fabric forces. 

Comfort is key here. So, we both need to have comfortable clothing. Nothing with zippers or hard fabric. 

Also, we can try different positions including scissoring, missionary and standing. 

It has to capitalize on stimulation and heightened pleasure. So, we'll get creative with different angles, speed and pressure to find the most effective position. 

There you have it. Let me know what your thoughts are. 

Cheers.

Just a Thought

  I have plenty of ideas that don't involve penetrative or oral sex. 

This is how I'd like our encounter to be:

When we meet, I'd like us to warm up to each other with a light conversation just to break the ice. At this point, maintaining eye contact can help build comfort before we try the ideas I'm about to suggest. 

1. Touching

I'll start by focusing on different parts of your body just to find out what feels good. I believe that touching can be pleasurable even when it doesn't lead to sex. The moment I let go of preconceived notions about penetrative sex, I opened myself up to more possibilities for pleasure. 

2. Massage

A sensual massage can take touching to a whole new level. It's a great way to get intimate without our genitals even getting close to touching each other. We can give each other massages in turns. 

When I do it, I'd like to focus on your upper body, back and shoulders. Just to make you feel relaxed. I'm confident that the skin-to-skin contact helps release oxytocin, which is the same chemical released during sex. 

If you are comfortable, I'll take the massage a notch higher by massaging your clit without actually putting anything inside. And also explore other areas on your body that feel good to be touched. 

3. Chatting and snacking

We can get some food, booze or some non-alcoholic drink, put on some music and sit opposite to each other on the bed, in comfy robes or undies. We can also mix up the chatting and snacking with a bit of touching and stroking depending on where the vibe takes us. 

4. Taking a texture tour with a blindfold

After getting your consent, I'll blindfold you and then stroke or press on the skin all over your body using household items of different textures. It can be a leather glove, chilly metal fork, wooden spoon or even a feather duster. 

I'll be mindful of the pleasure I experience while touching you. In particular, I'll try to see how the object feels on my hand and how your skin feels. 

5. Dry humping

I believe dry humping can genuinely feel great. It's the perfect way to challenge one other to provoke pleasure through fabric forces. 

Comfort is key here. So, we both need to have comfortable clothing. Nothing with zippers or hard fabric. 

Also, we can try different positions including scissoring, missionary and standing. 

It has to capitalize on stimulation and heightened pleasure. So, we'll get creative with different angles, speed and pressure to find the most effective position. 

Am I Living too Fast?

James Baldwin once said: "The paradox of education is precisely this - that as one begins to become conscious one begins to examine the society in which he is being educated." Mr. Baldwin was right. I find myself examining my society and recommending changes that need to be done by our so-called leaders. I'm very observant. 

Through my observations, I've also started realizing that I may be living too fast .I guess life expects us to be perfectly good at the things they don't teach in school. Life wants you to be fully equipped with skills your professor can't help you acquire.

Should I "live slow"

Well, I believe that the pace at which I'm living doesn't matter as long as I'm building myself without causing conflicts with society. I've always thought about slowing down but I find myself consumed by the fast life. I hope I find an accurate speedometer for my car and stop relying on other people's speedometers.

What Family Really Means

Are we supposed to be establishing and maintaining families at every stage of life we pass? It's general knowledge that family goes beyond DNA. It's those things that bring us together and the way we go through each of our lives together holding each other's hand through the ride hoping for nothing but the best.

My definition of the word "family" has really changed over the years based on my day-to-day encounters. I've met people who have impacted a lot of things in me. I've even considered them family regardless of our biology.

I always like to belong somewhere. You may be part of my family if you help me feel/learn/experience positive things that I've never felt/learnt/experienced before. To me, establishing bonds with certain people is something we should all be doing in our life times.

420

I think my parents should have let the good doctor administer doses of Cannabis to me when I was younger. I feel like I'd be past Steve Jobs' status if they followed my wish. My goal isn't to disrespect Steve Jobs here. I'm just using him as a reference.

Flashing Lights

Just like the usual saying "thieves are born everyday", paparazzis are also born everyday. But who are these paparazzi and what's their purpose in life. Read on to find out what I think.

I was watching the video of Avicii & Conrad Sewell - Taste the Feeling, which is the theme song to Coca-Cola ads, earlier today. It hit me that creatives like Avicii spend most times in their lives creating sounds. They distance themselves from the world to keep their creative juices flowing and

Back From My Blogging Hiatus

After a three-year break, I'm finally back with new exciting stuff to post here on my blog. I simply took the break because I kinda lacked inspiration for new content. Well, I'm back and here to stay. Since I last posted, I've opened my mind to several exciting things that I will be sharing on this blog in my next posts. I thought that this would be the most convenient time for me to revive my blog since micro-blogging sites like Facebook and Twitter failed to give me a reliable platform for expressing myself the way Google Blogger does.

As I embark on this exciting hobby, I'd like to get more feedback from my readers. I kindly urge you to submit your comments below regarding my posts. Your feedback will motivate me to keep generating more content and improve my art of creative writing. For those who have been fans of my blog since I started posting, I'd love to appreciate you all. I'd also love to appreciate new readers for sparing some time to visit my blog. Thank you guys. I promise to keep this blog as active as possible. I also promise to maintain honesty in every post I write.

Quotables

Movie series have a lot of quotables Where words don't translate, music speaks. When music artists are depressed, the studio is their only medication. Even CEOs have their cold moments. To succeed, you have to look at your life in a different perspective. Take charge everyday. No room for excuses. "A convicted fellow can never serve in the board of directors of a public company." - Lucious Lyon. I need a music therapist.

Black Thought

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Music

I promise to write about how music rescued me from depression
How it magnified my inner self
And it made visible all parts of me that I couldn't see before

I promise to share with you everything I gathered from music
From self awareness to harsh reality
It's sole purpose was to educate us
Expound upon the knowledge we got from school
Make our lives better by redefining how we view things

Through music I taught myself how to deal with the world negatives
I also discovered that karma is unforgiving
Hate on someone and the same  happens to you
It's just a matter of time
And our actions translate

As I lay on my bed this cold morning
I reflect on what my heart has been through
I also reminisce the good times I had with colleagues
Friends I met during this holiday
There's was a short term
But I enjoyed every second we spent

My journey has been adventurous
The weather has at times behaved
And my feet have always ensured that I kept walking
Though the sole of my shoe is getting old,
I'm certain that I shall find a new pair as soon as I arrive at my destination

For I am blessed!!!

This Far

1994 was the year a prince was brought to this world 

It was the year that he finally got his first glimpse of what earth looks like 

Inside his mama's womb, the vision was blurry 

Now the world is looking up to him 

With lots of expectations 

That he will make planet earth a better place 

And leave a legacy behind

 Let's not talk about legacy now 

He's just a day old 

 

Twenty one years later 

Dickson Machembe is fully grown 

He's mature enough to be independent 

Gone are the days his dad used to provide everything 

The time has come for his younger siblings to celebrate his progress 

A role model figure is what they see 

A big brother that's going to hold their hand anytime is what they expect 

Deep down, his intuition is so strong 

Philosophies guide him through every step he makes 

Perfection is for a few but he strives for excellence

 He grabs and seizes every opportunity that comes along his way 

In faith he creeps through every chain 

The finish line is visible from his point of view 

Only thing remaining is balance

 For the Most High has promised guidance and protection all day long

So far, so good

I've been on some elevating shit lately. My mind has really grown as a result of this process. Spiritually, I can now live amongst pessimists and optimists without conflict.

Dad must be proud of me now. His product is legit. First born son is independent. Fully grown and can now pay his bills.

This far is by the grace of God. I'm blessed and continue to feel blessed all day long.

Thursday Interlude

I woke up feeling so good that I might buy a new pair of shoes today. It's an interlude when I act normal, walk with confidence and smile all day. Its unusual, though when it occurs, I embrace it with joy.

Straight from the Dungeons of Trap

I must say that Kenyan Trap music is getting better everyday. There are a lot of young acts redefining this scene.

Kibbz the rapper, Just Waxx, Timmy Tim and Bv Accurate just to name a few, are amazing. Fans get a taste of their greatness from their SoundCloud accounts.

Check out the remix below originally done by Meek Mill and Drake.

Listen to Bv Accurate X Just Waxx - R.I.C.O by Cr3w Teflon (TsU) #np on #SoundCloud http://soundcloud.com/wearecr3wteflon/bv-accurate-x-just-waxx-rico

Monday Vibes

Today began so well. The boss started off by trying to tease me but later on he found out that I'm very intelligent. All this time he has been underestimating my potential. He has been mistaking my politeness for my weakness.

Truth is that I live a quiet life in a noisy world. Only a few people comprehend my lifestyle. Some think that I'm a sad little boy still in his twenties trying to figure out things. I just look at them with my critical eye and pray that  they see the light one day.

Moral of the story: Everyone has his own uniqueness. Our problem is that we are quick to judge.

Last Week

The week is finally over. The experience was great. Though tedious, I learnt a lot from my seniors.

This week has gone so fast. I remember it was Monday just the other day. Time flies as they say. We live and yarn for the best. Our duty to this earth is to win always.

Now, I'm heading home for some rest. Worn out feeling but I'll recover quickly. I don't need a doctor for my pains. A warm bath, nutritious food, uplifting music and some bed rest will do.

Smiling faces every where. My facial expressions are contradicting. I can't     hide my feelings with a fake smile.

Random

Random Post

I shouldn't be feeling this way. I shouldn't be acting like everything is fine while it's not. I shouldn't be looking at my past with regrets as I hope for a brighter future.

What should I be doing then?
I got to keep my head up and stay focused. I ought to console and motivate my soul when need arises. My thoughts should be inclined to where I'm headed.

I am a basketball player aiming for the net. My athletic body is an added advantage.

J.Cole 2014 Forest Hills Drive Album Review

Jermaine Cole is one honest rapper who believes in greatness. This manifests itself  after his album went platinum in a few weeks. Let's bear in mind that there was no promotion nor advertisement prior to its release.

Forest Hills Drive album debuted number one on the billboard top 200 charts and held that position for a while.
This project has no features but only accredited samples.

From his previous work, Born Siner, Cole has made a huge artistic progress. He let his emotions control him before and now he tries to explain to us how he overcomed his fears . 13 Songs long is the latest offering for his die hard fans.

This is a narrative of a young ambitious black male born in Carolina then later moved to New York seeking a better life. While there, his mom was kicked out of their apartment due to unpaid dues.
Cole also reminisces on his childhood life and adolescence stage among other issues he faced while growing up.
He also challenges his competition who are claiming to be kings. The white man taking over a black man's game is his biggest worry. Iggy Azalea, Eminem, Macklemore and Justin Timberlake are mentioned on Fire Squad as an example.
The production is good. It is usually hard to find a rapper and producer at the same time trying to balance the two. J. Cole succeeds in this. For an album released at the end of the year, it is safe to say that he    managed to have the best album of 2014. I can't say the same for 2015 though.

Introducing Wan Rizzy

Artist Spotlight: Wan Rizzy

The good thing about music is that new artists keep emerging to be at par with listeners rising demands. As technology advances, music production and the whole recording process is impacted.

Today, we focus on an artist who built a bigger fan base by utilizing what the internet has to offer. Wan Rizzy is the artist featured here today. The Ugandan Miami raised rapper brings a new musical vibe to a targeted audience. Fans aren't disappointed because his is a feel-good type of music.
He has several singles under his name both uploaded to popular Kenyan mp3 sharing website mdundo.com.
"In Another World" is one of his best tracks so far that managed to establish a name for him. This song has a mellow vibe accompanied by the smooth production.

Year 2015 has really been a great one for hip-hop. Regionally, Wan Rizzy breathes fresh air into our local hip-hop scene. This is one artist you have to watch out for because he's got talent.